Morbid Thoughts

Yesterday, I had some morbid thoughts going through my mind. What if on one my one trips back to Singapore, I got into an accident and die? Who would take care of my affairs in Singapore? Who would help my mom with all the pending things in Singapore like my loans and my credit card payments. Who would help her take care of my CPF account withdrawals?

I guess Azwaj would take care of all those when the time comes but even now he’s not showing any interest. My mom is illiterate and even if I were to tell her anything right now, she would probably say I’m talking rubbish.

I have started to compile all my paperwork last year. From shares certificate to loan documentation, from my central provident fund statements to my travel health insurance certificate, I have put them aside complete with the respective agents and login id and password. I hope it would help those going through my stuff when I’m gone.

I know these are morbid thoughts but I guess it has to be addressed and dealt with somehow. I just hope it’s enough….

My Mommy's Mammogram

Someone that my mother know has told her recently that when you’re 60years and over, you can’t possibly get breast cancer! So I am really pissed at this someone as my mom’s doctor had specifically told my mother that he wanted her to go through a mammogram examination.

I think it’s probably because my mother is scared so she’s using this person explanation as an excuse not to go. I managed to explained to her that she had nothing to fear and it is always better to be in the know then not. I also promised her I would be there with her for the appointment and that somehow made her feel more comfortable with the whole thing.

So folks, I’m going home the last week of May!

Hmm.. I guess I better get Azwaj’s car insurance renewed before then huh?

Cheerio…

A Better Husband

A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”

The father-in-law answered in a smile,

“Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”

Cheerio…